Saturday, 31 May 2025

A charitable Saturday...

Visited a friend who had recently gotten his own place and decided to offer my expertise to assist him in his home layout. 


I was actually very happy that he was able to host me at his new place because my weekends have been extremely unfruitful for the past few months (except last week when I accompanied Yen to the tile shop), so I was really looking forward to just catching up with him.



His place is located around the Bouna Vista area, so I decided to get us some Bubble Tea from KOI Signature at Star Vista before heading over, each cup ended up costing me about $10 because I had gotten the booze option.  He told me to help him surprise him, so I had actually ordered a cup of Matcha with Baileys for myself and a cup of Rum and Raisin Earl Grey for him,  because oddly enough, the caffeine in Matcha doesn't really affect my sleep, but when I actually went to his place, instead of just passing him the Earl Grey drink, I offered him the option to choose and he chose the Matcha one, so I felt like I got fucked now because we met at 3pm and if I drink any tea or coffee after 1pm, I would usually end up staying awake until 3am.

 


So anyways, his place was originally in a bit of a mess, the renovation phase is technically done, all he needed to do was get a professional cleaning team in come in and clean up the place as well as clear some of his rubbish and the house will be completed, the only problem was the plethora of furniture he had gotten from another friend. 



He had willingly accepted taken a bunch of display cabinets, dining table and chairs without really planning how they would all be able to fit into the space, so it looked a bit daunting at first when I entered the home, the sofa was just plopped right in the middle of the living room, there was a random high table right behind the sofa, his display cabinets were placed against the wall because that was the only area that had any space.



I had been playing around with the layout the day before, so I already had some ideas in my mind of where I wanted to place everything.



We did some catching up for a while at the start, and then I shared my ideas with him, before that, I didn't have the measurements of his furniture, so my initial space planning layout was based on assumption, turns out a lot of his items were slightly bigger than what I had thought.



Initially, I had thought I would only be sharing my ideas with him and he will only start shifting the furniture once his place had been properly cleaned up, but then I was really curious how everything would actually look once they were positioned according to my layout, so I asked him if he would like to shift his furniture around to see how it would look and if the layout would make sense, he agreed to it. 



It was very exciting and extremely gratifying when the space started opening up as we shifted the furniture to the planned out location and you could just see the flow of the house started making more sense, I managed to carve out an office space, a dining space and a living space all within the confines of a 2 Room HDB Living Room with just the furniture pieces he had, and after we had shifted everything and all the items were in their rightful place according to my proposal, I just sat on the sofa and started to really appreciate the space for what it was. It really reminded of my Visual Merchandising days at the furniture store, the pushing of the large furniture, the creation of new spaces by using existing cabinets to segregate the room, it made me miss that old job of mine for a bit because it is honestly so much easier than what I have to deal with at work right now.



Needless to say, I was very happy with the layout and if this had been my own place, I would be very satisfied with it. Other Interior Designers / Stylist may have been able to come up with a better layout, but I was personally very glad with the one I had come up with, so was my friend, which was most important because it is his place. He will be living alone, so what I had planned suited his needs and it would have suited mine as well.



After all the shifting, I had originally wanted us to get dinner together at Holland Village, figured we could walk over, but then he suggested we could just order Grabfood in because he had done that the day before when another friend of his had visited to assist with some other stuff, the only difference is now, we had a proper functioning dining space in his home, so that's what we did. 



I was at his place for a good 5 hours, which was a lot longer than I thought I would have stayed, but again, it beats being at home and doing fuck all the entire day. We eventually left together at about 8pm, walked over to Bouna Vista MRT and man was I glad we didn't walk to Holland Village because just that shorter walk to Bouna Vista already made me feel extremely sticky.




Being at his new home just makes me also want to quickly get my own place soon, and I had been swaying back and forth between getting a Tengah SBF and a Clementi BTO. Right now in this present moment, getting the BTO makes more sense, it will give me more time to save up and also still allow me to do some travelling since the flat will only be ready in 2029.... if I am lucky enough to ballot for it that is. The Tengah SBF is tempting, but I really do not have much money on hand to pay for the renovation works if I do get the flat, or at least I won't have enough to do it the way I want it done, I will have to wipe out pretty much my entire savings and settle for a compromised design instead.



It was very exciting though, to have been able to play around with the space. I can't wait to be invited back to help with the Interior Styling aspect of it when the rest of his stuff finally arrives from his current family home. Doing all these as a favor for a friend just feels a lot more fun than doing it professionally. 

Saturday, 24 May 2025

Saturday Stuff

Today is probably the first Saturday in a very long time that I have been out of the house to meet up with a friend and it is something I really needed because I have not had any social interaction like this for a while now.



That being said, this meeting still felt a bit like "work" because I was meeting up with Yen to look at tiles for her new place. We visited the tile shop in Kranji, which I had to take a Gojek to get to because of how inaccessible it was. Getting a Gojek/Grab to get there was easy, but getting a Gojek/Grab to get out was a pain in the ass because it was so hard to get any cars from there. It reminded me of the first time when I got assigned to the secluded Changi Airbase camp and had so much difficulty trying to call a cab home because no one really goes there, thus began my car rental journey for the remaining reservist cycles that came after that. 




The tile shop visit wasn't very fruitful because Yen couldn't find a suitable tile for her place, I was really just there as a friend so I was just offering very few inputs every now and then, the vibe that she wanted to achieve for her home wasn't one that I personally liked, so I also couldn't really offer too much assistance in that regard.


After that hour long tile shop visit, we both headed over the Orchard to have lunch, I had to try Gojek/Grab a total of 6 times to actually get a driver, we tried to look for one while we were in the tile shop and failed multiple times, so we decided to just head to the nearest bus stop to get out, the afternoon Sun was fucking intense and the single bus that serves that area had a 15 minute interval between each one, it just so happened that one had arrived while we were still quite distant away from the bus stop, so we would have had to wait for another 15 minutes in that heat. I tried to get a Grab/Gojek from the bus stop and thankfully, managed to find a driver within a minute.  



The driver was surprised for us that we managed to find a driver in that area as we boarded his car.  Had a bit of small talk at the start, he probably sensed we weren't too interested to have any small talk, so the rest of the trip after was just silent. Yen and I were both headed to Orchard, she had a hair appointment there and I wanted to just go to Orchard for the sake of it and also to get chocolate, so we decided to have lunch together, her husband joined us shortly after and honestly speaking, we didn't really have much to "catch up" on because she is now working with my boss on a project basis, so I do still see her on a weekly basis during our company meetings, and her husband is a full time employee who is working on some of my projects as a Project Manager, so I am almost always in contact with him. 


The meal didn't feel really special, she wasn't feeling particularly chatty because of how uneventful the tile visit was, and it felt like we were just colleagues having a meal together rather than friends, but I was still happy to actually be outside having a meal with friends compared to being at home and ordering the same food that I will usually get from Foodpanda.



After lunch, we split up, Yen and her husband headed to ION and I headed over to Takashimaya to get more Laderach chocolate...


... my plan was to get the Dubai chocolate because the ridiculous thing is, this Laderach chocolate slab is still cheaper than the Fix Dessert Chocolate Bar that is being sold by this reseller in Singapore.



The reseller is selling a 200g bar for $65.


Laderach is selling a 200g  for $44, and Laderach is not a cheap brand,  goes to show how ridiculous that reseller shop is selling their bars for.


I got introduced to Laderach by someone I had met on a dating app, said individual gave a lot of mixed signals during our 1 month of getting to know each other, so I do not have a good impression of them, and that, in proxy, has also kind of affected my feelings towards this particular brand. That being said, it is objectively really good chocolate, so I will still splurge on it when I feel like it. I just don't like the feelings that I have associated to the brand because of that person.



Anyways, since it was a Saturday afternoon, the mall was packed as fuck, especially the route to get from Wisma Atria to Ngee Ann City, and then back again all the way to ION Orchard to get to the MRT Station, I was just shuffling along with the crowd and taking baby steps because it was so difficult to cut through all the slow walkers, so that was an unpleasant back and forth journey. I thought of PopMart when I was in the ION Orchard area, but I didn't step into the store to get anything, which I think is something that I deserve a pat on the back for., and well, it was also crowded as fuck so I really had no desire to step in.



So that's my Saturday, it was alright and a definite improvement from the last few Saturdays I have had, I really do need to stay in touch and meet up with more friends, hopefully also make some new ones online through dating apps. I tried to find dates on there and the last few that I have been on have been terrible, online dating is definitely not the way to go for me, the last 3 individuals that I had met on the app that I thought had so much potential were all disappointment, and they really went from bad to worst.

Monday, 19 May 2025

More PopMart shit

I decided to get another set of blindbox from PopMart last Friday and it arrived today! 

This is the Chaka Candle Whisper series, the second Chaka series from PopMart. The first one is the Light Sprite series, which I also got the whole set  a few months back and managed to pull the secret from that collection, and I was super happy to have pulled that secret because I really like it. 


This new set however, I wasn't too keen on the secret because it was a double figurine, which I am personally not a huge fan of.

It's like meh.


Before opening the boxes, I was shaking them all to see if I could tell if one of them would be the secret, it looked pretty chunky so I thought I could feel the shape from shaking, I shortlisted 3 and none of them were it, they were the normal ones, and they are fucking pretty.


I thought since those 3 that I thought were the secret weren't it, then I must be safe, this whole set does not include the secret, so I started to open them and was just amazed at how pretty they all were...


... I mean the detail of this is so intricate, this is probably my favorite figurine in the entire series! 


I was so happy just seeing each figurine, that was until I started opening maybe the 6th or 7th box and noticed that the back of the card that came with each figurine looked a bit different, I flipped the card over and lo and behold, it was the fucking secret.

 

I pulled the fucking secret.


I was excited to have pulled a secret, but also disappointed because I didn't want this particular secret, pulling a secret means I am missing one of the main figurines and what's annoying about this series is that each figurine has a matching pair, this means one of my figurine is short of their significant other.


Sigh


I guess I have really good luck when it comes to getting full set from PopMart because I was really not expecting my second full set to have a secret in it as well.


First series.


I have since upgraded the display case for this Chaka series because it has the secret and it deserves to be lit, now it seems I may have to buy another one for the second Chaka series since that has a secret as well.